I attended an all girls high school and an all girls college so I understand how mean and catty girls can be. Actually, my experience was kind of the opposite. In a school of only 200 girls there were different personalities but I found a real sisterhood and lots of support. It has not been until lately I have run into such “mean girl” beauvoir and I have to admit it made me cranky. It was actually someone who had every reason to be angry with these “ladies” and I use the term loosely, that pointed out to me it was their issue not mine. I am finding it hard not to react which is most likely their goal in the long run. So, it got me thinking and it got me writing and this is what I have come up with. If putting someone or something down because you don’t like it does not make it any less it makes you and your insecurities all the more obvious. Like, if you have to keep screaming “Look at Me” and “Look how fabulous what I am doing as opposed to what you are doing” makes me think of a middle-aged man covering up for his shortcomings with a sports car and hair plugs. So, keep on making your noise because we can not hear you nor do we care. But you keep on shouting because if you say it enough maybe you will actually start believing it yourself and stop trying to prove it to everyone else. Remember, no matter how good you look mean girls are ugly.